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  <title>Our Vision as Charis...in the Gospel</title>
  <link>http://www.charischurch.com/charis-blog/our-vision-as-charisin-the-gospel/</link>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2008 10:34:54 CST</pubDate>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Our vision as Charis is to be a church that reveals the whole Gospel to the whole person for the sake of the whole world.&nbsp; We believe with all of our hearts that we are to be &ldquo;the aroma of Christ&rdquo;; spreading the knowledge of God everywhere we go.&nbsp; But how are we going to do it?&nbsp; How are we going to live in such a way as to reveal the Gospel?&nbsp; We must believe the Gospel ourselves.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We need to understand we continually need the Gospel as much as anyone.&nbsp; Our first priority is not figuring out what we must do.&nbsp; Our first priority is always realizing what Jesus has done.&nbsp; The most important thing about us as individuals and as a church is not what we do.&nbsp; The most important thing about who we are as individuals and as a church is what God has done for us in the Gospel.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">What is the Gospel?&nbsp; The Gospel is the good news of the good God who came to earth in Jesus Christ.&nbsp; He came to save His rebellious children from sin and folly, to forgive them, to make them whole by dying for their sin, and to restore them to Himself.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Through the Gospel,</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We&rsquo;re forgiven. (Eph. 1:7)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We&rsquo;re made God&rsquo;s children. (1 John 3:1)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We&rsquo;re loved by God.&nbsp; (Romans 5:8)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We&rsquo;re given the Holy Spirit. (Eph. 1:13)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We have a relationship with God. (1 John 1:3)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We&rsquo;re promised an inheritance. &ndash; (1 Peter 1:3-5)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We&rsquo;re made dead to sin and alive to God. &ndash;(Romans 6:6-8;11)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We&rsquo;re freed from selfishness to serve God. (2 Cor. 5:15)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We&rsquo;re promised eternal life in a world without any sin and sorrow one day. (Rev. 21:3-5)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We receive radical grace and kindness from God. (Titus 3:3-5)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We&rsquo;re sent out into the world as missionaries with the gospel. (John 17:18)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We belong to God&rsquo;s people, the church. (Eph. 2:13,19)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We&rsquo;re given gifts to serve the church. (Romans 12:4-8)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">All of this is true of us as believers in Christ.&nbsp; (*Speaking to Charis* this is true about us!)&nbsp; These aren&rsquo;t just nice, inspiring thoughts.&nbsp; This is our reality in Christ.&nbsp; What would happen in our lives if we lived everyday, through every circumstance, in every relationship &ndash; in view of the reality of the Gospel?&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The most important thing for our church to do is to believe the Gospel. &nbsp;The only way we will live out our vision of being a church that reveals the whole Gospel to the whole person for the sake of the whole world is if we ourselves continually grow in our understanding, belief, joy, and hope in the Gospel of Jesus Christ.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The more we preach the Gospel to ourselves, the more we intentionally strive to live in the good of the Gospel, and the more we identify idols in our lives that look to unseat Jesus as our hope, joy, satisfaction, and identity &ndash; the more we will bear fruit, reveal the Gospel, and live out God&rsquo;s vision for us.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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  <title>Confessing, Confronting, Repenting - TOGETHER</title>
  <link>http://www.charischurch.com/charis-blog/confessing-confronting-repenting-together/</link>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2008 09:37:03 CDT</pubDate>
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<p class="MsoNormal">&ldquo;Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.&rdquo; &ndash; James 5:16</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Charis Community Church is a community of people saved by grace, hoping in Christ, battling sin, and pursuing Christ-likeness.&nbsp; Because we understand these truths about ourselves, Charis ought to be a community of humble transparency in regards to our struggles with sin rather than pridefully putting up fronts and hiding from truly being known.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Because we&rsquo;re saved by grace, we no longer need to hide, defend and justify ourselves to one another.&nbsp; We understand God is our Judge (Romans 8:33-34), and Jesus is our Advocate (1 John 2:1).&nbsp; Our Judge has removed the guilt of sin from us and has justified us already through the blood of Jesus Christ, our Advocate.&nbsp; This gives us the freedom to confess our sin to one another, rather than hide it, defend it, or try to justify it.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Because our hope is in Christ, and not in our performance, we can be honest about our failures and ask one another to pray for us and help us and keep us accountable.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Because we all battle sin, we can assume others within Charis are struggling with the same or similar weaknesses and sins that we are. We can then encourage and confront one another with the love, hope and humility of knowing we are in this together and wish the best for one another.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">And because we are all pursuing Christ-likeness, we can invite brothers and sisters in Charis into our lives to help encourage and confront us in love.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Because of the cross, our struggle with sin is ALWAYS a struggle with sin that has been canceled, forgiven, paid for, and on its way out.&nbsp; As we confront sin, confess sin, and repent of sin in our lives &ndash; healing, joy, and Christ-likeness come in to replace it.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">May God bring this kind of grace into Charis, where friendships built on the gospel of Jesus would be formed and deepened, where there would be a safe place for sinners to come and honestly assess their hearts, motives, and actions, and confess their sin to one another and be reminded of Christ&rsquo;s finished work on the cross, and where people&rsquo;s joy in the grace of God would overflow into love for God and repentance of sin.&nbsp; It is in this context that healing and wholeness comes.&nbsp; The church is to be a hospital where sinners can come and find grace to be healed (even sinners who are pastors).&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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  <title>Redeeming Work</title>
  <link>http://www.charischurch.com/charis-blog/redeeming-work/</link>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 16:08:42 CDT</pubDate>
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<p style="text-align: center;" align="center" class="MsoNormal">&ldquo;Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward.&nbsp; You are serving the Lord Christ.&rdquo;&nbsp;- Colossians 3:23,24</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;&ldquo;Only let each person lead the life that the Lord has assigned to him, and to which God has called him.&rdquo; &ndash; 1 Corinthians 7:17</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">It is a common (although often unspoken) belief among Christians that God &ldquo;calls&rdquo; pastors and missionaries to their work, but not other jobs and professions &ndash; like being a teacher, lawyer, mechanic, or stay-at-home mom.&nbsp; The belief or assumption is that church work is service to the Lord, but not other work.&nbsp; This is not true!</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The Bible teaches that God calls his people to all kinds of work.&nbsp; Theologians call this the &ldquo;doctrine of vocation&rdquo;.&nbsp; Vocation simply means &ldquo;calling&rdquo;.&nbsp; The doctrine of vocation teaches that every Christian is called to specific work, through which God himself cares for and governs the world.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">God protects us through police officers.&nbsp; God teaches us through teachers.&nbsp; God provides means of travel for us through auto mechanics and engineers.&nbsp; God raises and teaches children through parents.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Martin Luther called our vocations the &ldquo;masks of God&rdquo;.&nbsp; On the surface, we see an ordinary human face&mdash;our mother, the doctor, the teacher, the waitress, our pastor&mdash;but, beneath the appearances, God is ministering to us through them.&nbsp; God is hidden in human vocations.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Gene Veith, when speaking of the doctrine of vocation, says, &ldquo;When God blesses us, He almost always does it through other people.&nbsp; The ability to read God&rsquo;s Word is an inexpressibly precious blessing, but reading is an ability that did not spring fully-formed in our young minds.&nbsp; It required the vocation of teachers.&nbsp; God protects us through the cop on the beat&hellip;He gives us beauty and meaning through artists.&nbsp; He lets us travel through the ministry of auto workers, mechanics, road crews and car dealers.&nbsp; He keeps us clean through the work of trash collectors, plumbers, sanitation workers and the sometimes undocumented aliens who clean our hotel rooms.&nbsp; He heals through doctors, nurses, and pharmacists.&nbsp; He brings people to salvation through pastors and through anyone else who preaches the gospel.&nbsp; The fast-food worker, the inventor, the clerical assistant, the scientist, the accountant, the musician&mdash;they are all high callings, used by God to bless and serve His people and His creation.&rdquo;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">So all work is important to God, and God calls His people to all kinds of work in order to bless people.&nbsp; While most of us place ourselves at the center of our work, under the assumption that the work we do is all about ourselves (what we want to do and how we want to prosper), the doctrine of vocation puts God and others at the center of our work (what God calls us to do to help His creation prosper).&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>]]></description>
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  <title>The Gospel and Good Works</title>
  <link>http://www.charischurch.com/charis-blog/the-gospel-and-good-works/</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 12:38:34 CDT</pubDate>
  <description><![CDATA[<p align="center" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal">Scripture:&nbsp; Titus Chapter 3, Verses 5-8</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">One of the &ldquo;perceived&rdquo; benefits to legalism (treating man-made commandments as if they were God-given commandments) and religion (if I obey good enough and perform well enough, then I&rsquo;ll be accepted by God) is that they, allegedly, offer the most effective motivation to do good works.&nbsp; Otherwise, how else will people do what&rsquo;s right apart from a little fear, guilt, and condemnation?&nbsp; Right?&nbsp; Wrong.</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">For Christians, the Gospel of Jesus Christ is too often seen only as being useful for evangelism, and is primarily viewed as merely the entry point to Christianity.&nbsp; Legalism often suggests for Christian &ldquo;growth&rdquo; to take place, that religion and fear must be called back up from the minor leagues&mdash;so to speak&mdash;and essential doctrines of the Gospel and grace are forced to take a seat on the bench.&nbsp; None of us are totally immune from the tendency to fall back into works-oriented religion.&nbsp; As Martin Luther once said, &ldquo;religion is the default mode of the human heart.&rdquo;&nbsp; We must continually be called back to the gospel of grace.&nbsp; We must understand the Gospel not only in relationship to justification (being saved), but also in relationship to sanctification (growing in Christ-likeness).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">In the Bible, Titus Chapter 3 gives us good teaching on Gospel-motivated good works.&nbsp; Titus 3:5-8 says that God saved us, &ldquo;not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy&hellip;through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by his grace we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life.&rdquo;&nbsp; The Gospel always serves as a reminder we are saved by grace, not by works.&nbsp; The Apostle Paul goes on to instruct Titus to, &ldquo;insist on these things (the gospel of grace), so that those who have believed in God may be careful to devote themselves to good works&rdquo; (3:8).&nbsp; In essence, Paul is saying that since we&rsquo;ve been saved by grace, this ought to motivate us to devote ourselves to good works.&nbsp; The gospel of grace provides authentic motivation for devoting ourselves to good works!&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">We must realize we are called to &ldquo;insist&rdquo;&mdash;as Paul commands&mdash;on the Gospel rather than guilt, condemnation, fear, legalism, manipulation, and all the other things we typically lean on to motivate ourselves and others to do good.&nbsp; We must &ldquo;insist&rdquo; on the gospel to ourselves, to our families, and to one another.&nbsp; Through hearing, knowing, and operating out of the Gospel, we&rsquo;ll devote ourselves to good works!</p>]]></description>
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  <title>Charis as a Counter-Culture</title>
  <link>http://www.charischurch.com/charis-blog/charis-as-a-counter-culture/</link>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 16:25:05 CDT</pubDate>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: left;" class="MsoNormal">One of our callings as the people of God is to be an alternative &ldquo;city within a city.&rdquo; Jesus calls us &ldquo;the light of the world&rdquo; and &ldquo;a city on a hill&rdquo; that is not to be hidden (Matt. 5:14).&nbsp; As this alternative city within a city, we are to cultivate a culture that honors God, brings joy to people, and does good to the larger city in which we&rsquo;re contained.&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">An important aspect of cultivating this God-honoring &ldquo;counter-culture&rdquo; is understanding who Christ has called us&ndash;out of the darkness of the world&mdash;to be.&nbsp; The following is a blueprint of what this counter-culture is to look like, in regards to the roles of men, women, singles, and members of a family.&nbsp; There is of course much more that could be said about all of these areas, but I believe this starts us off in the right direction.&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">Men, who&hellip; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Love God above all things (Matt. 22:36-37).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Read the Bible and pray (Ps. 19:7-14).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Understand and take seriously their calling to be leaders in our church and in their families by serving others and sacrificing themselves for the good of others (Matt. 20:25-28; 1 Tim. 3:1-7; 2 Tim. 2:2; 1 Cor. 11:3). </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Have a good theology of work and money (Eph. 4:28; Col. 3:23-24; 1 Cor. 10:31; Heb. 13:5-6; 1 Tim. 6:17-19).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Understand their identity in Christ as loved sons of God, called to sacrificially and humbly serve as missionaries in our community (Romans 8:14-17,37; 2 Cor. 5:17-20).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Act responsibly (Eph. 5:15-17).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Use their time, talents, and resources to further God&rsquo;s mission in the world (Acts 20:24).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Will not lust after women who aren&rsquo;t their wives (Job 31:1).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Encourage one another regularly to turn from sin and live for Christ (Hebrews 3:13). </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Protect the purity of their sisters in Christ, rather than attempt to take it away (1 Tim. 5:1-2). </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Desire the best for one another (1 Cor. 12:12-27).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Train younger men how to obey God (2 Tim. 2:2).</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;" class="MsoNormal">Women, who&hellip;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; text-align: justify; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo5; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Love God above all things (Matt. 22:36-37).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; text-align: justify; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo5; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Love and care for other women in our community, looking for ways to encourage them in their faith (Titus 2:3-5; Heb. 10:24).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; text-align: justify; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo5; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Continually seek to grow in the knowledge of God and to understand the fullness of the gospel (Col. 1:9-10; Eph. 3:14-19).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; text-align: justify; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo5; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Understand their identity in Christ as beloved daughters of God, called to sacrificially and humbly serve as missionaries in our community (Romans 8:14-17,37; 2 Cor. 5:17-20).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; text-align: justify; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo5; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Practice mercy and righteousness (2 Tim. 1:7).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; text-align: justify; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo5; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Serve the men in our community well by dressing modestly (1 Tim. 2:9-10; 1 Tim. 5:1-2). </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; text-align: justify; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo5; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Speak only words that help, encourage, and strengthen others (Eph. 4:29).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; text-align: justify; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo5; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Are content with what God has given them materially and are not envious of others (Heb. 13:5-6; 1 Tim. 6:6-10).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; text-align: justify; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo5; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Set their minds and bodies to serving Christ (Col. 3:1-2; 1 Cor. 6:19-20).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; text-align: justify; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo5; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Train younger women how to obey God (Titus 2:3-5).&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">Singles, who&hellip; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Love and serve Jesus above all else (Matt. 22:36-37).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Take advantage of their time as a single to serve God in ways and capacities they would not be able to if they were married (1 Cor. 7:32-35). </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Serve the church sacrificially (1 John 3:16).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Prepare for marriage in their time as a single - assuming they don&rsquo;t have the gift of singleness (Prov. 1-8).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Have healthy, God-honoring relationships with the opposite sex (1 Tim. 5:1-2).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Are examples to the rest of the church in holiness, humility, and faith (1 Tim. 4:12; 1 Cor. 7:6-8,32-35).</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">Husbands/Fathers, who&hellip; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Love their wives sacrificially as Christ loved the church (Eph. 5:25-29).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Are active in their children&rsquo;s lives &ndash; talking to them, playing with them, spending time with them, teaching them, and disciplining them (Deut. 6:4-9; Prov. 13:24; Eph. 6:4).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Pastor their family and lead them &ndash; in word and deed (1 Cor. 11:3; Eph. 6:4).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Take responsibility for the spiritual/physical/emotional well being of their family (1 Cor. 11:3; Prov. 20:7).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Pray with their wives (1 Peter 3:7; Eph. 5:28-30).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Study the Bible with their family (Deut. 6:4-9; Prov. 22:6).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">Wives/Mothers, who&hellip; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l5 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Love their husband and their kids (Titus 2:4).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l5 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Respect and submit themselves with joy to their husband&rsquo;s leadership (Titus 2:5; Eph. 5:22-24).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l5 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Seek to find ways that they can best help their husbands (Gen. 2:18-25; Prov. 31:10-12).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l5 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Do not buy into the cultural lie that working in the marketplace is more important or satisfying than working in the home (Titus 2:4-5; Prov. 31:27).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l5 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Teach their children the Bible and how to live it out (Deut. 6:4-9; Prov. 1:8-9; Prov. 22:6; Prov. 31:26).&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal">Children, who are&hellip; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Seen as a blessing (Ps. 127:3-5).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Loved and cared for (Prov. 13:24; Titus 2:4; Eph. 6:4).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Taught the Bible (Deut. 6:4-9).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Taught how to pray (Eph. 6:4).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Learning about the gospel and their need for Jesus (2 Tim. 3:14-15).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Learning about what God is like through seeing the examples around them (2 Cor. 2:14).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Growing in wisdom (Prov. 1-8).&nbsp; </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.4in; text-indent: -0.15in; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .4in;" class="MsoNormal">&sect; Disciplined in love (Prov. 13:24).&nbsp; </p>
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  <title>Seeking God in Bloomington-Normal</title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2008 15:06:22 CDT</pubDate>
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Have you ever wondered why/how you ended up where you are and&nbsp;around the people you&rsquo;re... around?&nbsp;&nbsp;What has brought you to Bloomington/Normal?&nbsp; Was it just where you were born?&nbsp; Was it housing prices?&nbsp; Was it a job?&nbsp; Was it a relationship?&nbsp; Was it college?&nbsp; 
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In Acts 17, the Apostle Paul shed some divine light on this question as he shared the gospel with a group of Athenians.&nbsp; In verse 26 Paul said, &ldquo;And he made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place, that they should seek God, in the hope that they might feel their way toward him and find him.&nbsp; Yet he is actually not far from each one of us&hellip;&rdquo;
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The Bible says here that God has determined the time and place&nbsp;where&nbsp;we live.&nbsp; We are in Bloomington-Normal by God&rsquo;s determination, not ours.&nbsp; Now, don&rsquo;t give up making wise decisions and become&nbsp;unnecessarily fatalistic.&nbsp; God uses our reasoning capacities, desires, family and&nbsp;various other&nbsp;things to move us where He wants us.&nbsp; But, we need to understand we&rsquo;re here because God has placed us here.&nbsp; 
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God has also placed people around us.&nbsp; He has&nbsp;determined where&nbsp;we live, and He&rsquo;s also determined where those around us live.&nbsp; Interesting, eh?&nbsp; And why&nbsp;would He do that?&nbsp; &ldquo;That they should seek God, in the hope that they might feel their way toward him and find him.&rdquo;&nbsp; There are most likely people around you seeking God, or more specifically,&nbsp;God is seeking after them.&nbsp; And, many&nbsp;may not even realize&nbsp;God is seeking them.&nbsp; 
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There are&nbsp;people in your neighborhood, in your family, in your workplace and in your life that God is seeking.&nbsp;&nbsp;God has purposefully and gloriously put you in their lives to love them, serve them, be their friend, have them into your house, and share the gospel with them, so that they might find Him.&nbsp; Let us&nbsp;pray and look for opportunities to share the gospel of Jesus with those God has placed around us.
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  <title>Following Jesus Means Messiness</title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 03 Mar 2008 18:52:31 CST</pubDate>
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Obedience to Jesus and moving forward on mission with Him can be messy at times, right?&nbsp; That is what I thought of this week as I read Proverbs 14:4 &ndash; &ldquo;Where there are no oxen, the manger is clean, but abundant crops come by the strength of the ox.&rdquo;&nbsp; If there are no oxen, then there is no mess to clean up in the stalls.&nbsp; Makes a lot less work, right? The down-side, of course, is that no progress is made.&nbsp; The oxen are needed to manage the crops.&nbsp; Progress often means that there will be messiness.&nbsp; <br />
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I think messiness can come in the form of having hard conversations with people about sin, getting to know people you may not think you have much in common with, having people into your home that aren&rsquo;t your best friends, building relationships with people that have different values/morals/worldviews than you, taking the time to give godly counsel to people in really difficult circumstances, giving time and resources to help others out of certain circumstances, serving our church and others at times when it isn&rsquo;t convenient, and probably a million other ways.&nbsp; Often times we gravitate towards comfort and cleanliness over obedience, sacrifice, and messiness. There are many times that I choose (or am tempted to choose) ease, comfort, and &ldquo;the seen&rdquo; over obedience, sacrifice, and &ldquo;the unseen&rdquo;. The former is &ldquo;cleaner&rdquo; than the latter, and it&rsquo;s more familiar.&nbsp; It also takes no FAITH.&nbsp;&nbsp; As a church desiring to be on mission with Jesus, we can&rsquo;t be afraid of the messiness that comes from following Jesus.<br />
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Here are a few things to think about:<br />
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&bull;&nbsp;Which do you fear more &ndash; God or the &ldquo;messiness&rdquo; that following God might create in your life? God must be the BIGGEST motivation in our lives as missional Christians. 
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&bull;&nbsp;Jesus never ran from the &ldquo;mess&rdquo; of our sin, but rather He layed his life down in order to make us clean. How does this carry over into your life?&nbsp; Do you run from the messiness of people around you, or do you lay selfish desires down so that they too can become &ldquo;clean&rdquo; by the blood of Jesus? 
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&bull;&nbsp;As we are just beginning our lives together as Charis, what can you do to bring the cleansing power of the gospel into the messiness of our community? 
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May God remind us that we are to bring His cleansing gospel into the messiness of our world, our relationships, and our church through faith, repentance, forgiveness, and love.&nbsp; We&rsquo;ll never have real unity, we&rsquo;ll never be the church Jesus has called us to be, and we&rsquo;ll never shine very brightly, without applying the gospel to the messiness of real life. 
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  <title>Charis on Mission</title>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 11:58:38 CST</pubDate>
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We have recently started small groups at Charis and are beginning these groups by examining what it means to be a church on mission.&nbsp; One thing&nbsp;very clear&nbsp;throughout Scripture is that God is on mission.&nbsp; This is particularly clear in the four gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, John)&nbsp;as we learn what God is like&nbsp;by watching and listening to Jesus.&nbsp; 
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Jesus was certainly on a mission.&nbsp; In John 4:34, Jesus said He has been sent to accomplish the work of His Father.&nbsp; Later, in John 19:30, as Jesus hung on the cross--bloody and beaten--for&nbsp;our sins, Jesus said, &ldquo;It is finished&rdquo;.&nbsp; He had been sent by the Father to do a specific mission, and Jesus completed that mission.&nbsp; In John 20:21, Jesus told his followers that as the Father had sent Him into the world for a specific mission, so He is sending us: His followers.&nbsp; 
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As individuals and as a church we&nbsp;need to ask ourselves...
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	What is the mission Jesus has sent us to accomplish?
	What things encompass the mission that Jesus has sent us on?&nbsp; 
	Is it an all-inclusive&nbsp;mission that involves our whole lives? Or,&nbsp;is it like a 9-to-5 mission (or a once-a-year-for-a-week mission)?
	What is the mission Jesus has sent His people on?
	In what specific way(s) is His mission for you&nbsp;re-shaping&nbsp;your life?

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  <title>At Charis, we're all about &quot;Growing in Grace&quot;</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2008 11:03:18 CST</pubDate>
  <description><![CDATA[<p>The theme of Charis Community Church is &ldquo;Growing in Grace&rdquo;.&nbsp;&nbsp;We love that, because growth is good, and grace is even better!&nbsp; But what do we mean&nbsp;when we say&nbsp;that?<br />
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&quot;Growing&rdquo; can mean many different things to different people.&nbsp; At Charis, we've defined and&nbsp;summed up &quot;growing&quot; as wanting to grow in our love for God and our love for people&hellip;all people.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />
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And, what about &ldquo;grace&rdquo;?&nbsp; Grace sums up our only hope for growth.&nbsp; Grace is all about the person of Jesus Christ, coming near to us, dying for us, rising from the dead for us, living in us through His Spirit, and changing us &ndash; all because of His great love for us.&nbsp; In short, grace is all about what Jesus has done for us.&nbsp; <br />
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So, what specific ways do you want to grow in your love for God and people?&nbsp; Maybe you want to love your family or roommate better.&nbsp; Maybe you want to love your co-workers better.&nbsp; Maybe you want to defeat some specific sin in your life and obey Jesus more fully.&nbsp; Our only hope for any of this is the good news (gospel) of God&rsquo;s grace to us in Jesus.&nbsp; <br />
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Look at the words of Paul in 2 Corinthians 3:18 &ndash; &ldquo;And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another.&nbsp; For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br />
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Transformation (growing)&nbsp;comes from knowing and beholding the glory of the Lord (grace), and living in response to it.<br />
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  <title>Welcome to the new CharisChurch.com</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2008 15:55:13 CST</pubDate>
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Welcome to the new CharisChurch.com website!&nbsp; Feel free to take a look around and learn more about our church, our vision, and why we make a BIG deal out of Jesus!
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